A check-in app for safe online dating and socializing

Plan your nights out with more peace of mind — by turning missed check-ins into a clear signal that something may be wrong.

Check-in app for safe online dating
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Quick and simple set-up
Create a check-in in seconds — before a date, meetup, or social plan — on any device.
Unobtrusive by design
SoloWise stays out of the way once your check-in is active.
Optional location sharing
Share your location only if and when you choose.
In-app Emergency Button
Trigger an alert immediately if you need help or feel unsafe.
Designed for independence and privacy
Built to support safe online dating without constant oversight or pressure.

When meeting someone new, uncertainty can escalate quickly.

Online dating and socializing often involve meeting people you don’t know well — sometimes in unfamiliar places, sometimes late at night, and often with limited context.

Most dates go just fine. But when communication unexpectedly stops, plans change without notice, or someone doesn't return home as expected, the lack of clarity can be unsettling — both for you and for those who care about you.

This is when a scheduled check-in system can make the difference — by turning silence into a timely and meaningful signal.

SoloWise adds certainty
without complexity.

SoloWise is easy to integrate into your social routine.

Set a check-in before a date or meetup, and simply check in afterward.

If you don't check in, SoloWise automatically alerts your chosen contacts — so uncertainty doesn't linger.

Quick & Easy

Set a check-in in under a minute before heading out. Choose a check-in time and your contacts.

Unobstrusive

No interruptions while you're out having a good time — just check in on schedule.

Automatic

Missed check-ins trigger alerts to your family and friends automatically.

Why Early Awareness Matters

When it comes to safety for online dating, timing matters.

Unanswered messages and delayed responses are common — but prolonged silence can quickly create confusion and concern. SoloWise ensures that missed expectations don’t go unnoticed for hours or days.

By providing early awareness, SoloWise helps prevent small uncertainties from becoming serious situations.

Why Our Members Choose SoloWise for Safe Online Dating

Our members turn to SoloWise to support safe online dating and socializing — without giving up independence or privacy.

Maintains independence
Go on dates and meet people with more peace of mind.
No constant monitoring
Contacts are only notified if a check-in is missed.
Fits into everyday life
Works quietly alongside your normal daily routine, even outside of socializing.
Alerts only when needed
Missed check-ins trigger alerts to your friends and family automatically.
You stay in control
You choose your contacts, timing, and settings.

How Our Members Use SoloWise When Dating or Socializing

Check-in app for first dates

First Dates

  • Set a check-in timer before meeting someone new.
  • Check in when you get home safely.
  • If you don't check in, your family and friends are alerted automatically.
Check-in app for going to bars and clubs alone

Bars & Clubs

  • Create a check-in timer before heading out the door.
  • SoloWise runs quietly in the background.
  • If a check-in is missed, SoloWise alerts your chosen contacts automatically.
Check-in app for living in new area

New Areas

  • Schedule check-ins for meetups when living in a new area.
  • Optional location sharing adds extra context.
  • Contacts are alerted to the right place, at the right time.
Check-in app for driving home late alone

Driving Home Late

  • Set a check-in before starting a late-night drive home.
  • Check in when you arrive safely at your destination.
  • If you don't check in, SoloWise alerts your contacts automatically.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is SoloWise a dating app or messaging service?
No. SoloWise is not a dating platform. It's a check-in app designed to support safe online dating through scheduled check-ins and automated alerts.
Does SoloWise track my location while I'm out?
No. SoloWise does not provide continuous tracking. Location sharing is optional and entirely under your control.
Who gets notified if I miss a check-in?
Only the emergency contacts you select. You choose who is notified and when.
What if my phone battery dies or I lose cell service?
Once you save a check-in time, SoloWise does not rely on your device to send alerts to your contacts.
What happens if I need help immediately?
You can trigger an alert instantly using the in-app Emergency Button.

Pricing: Free to Premium

Plans differ only by usage capacity, not by access to core safety features.

The fundamental features of SoloWise, including unlimited check-in times and one emergency contact, are always free with our basic plan.

All you need to do is sign-up with your name and email address -- no credit card required.

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SoloWise Plus

$ 3 / mo

Extra room for daily use beyond the basics

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SoloWise Pro

$ 6 / mo

Greater capacity for complex daily routines

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SoloWise Platinum

$ 9 / mo

Complete access to our highest limits

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