Schedule a Timer
Select the check-in time, location, and emergency contacts.
Meet new people with more peace of mind.
A check-in app for for safe online dating
Add a digital safety net to your nights out.
Stay in controlSet a check-in for any date or social event.
Automatic alertsIf you miss a check-in, trusted contacts are notified.
Privacy & respectStay connected without continuous tracking.
Peace of mindEnjoy the date knowing SoloWise has your back.
A simple backup plan
Meeting someone new should feel exciting — not stressful.
Online dating can lead to great connections, but meeting someone for the first time naturally comes with a little uncertainty. You want to enjoy the moment, not spend the evening worrying about safety or constantly checking your phone.
SoloWise gives you a simple backup plan without getting in the way. Set a check-in before your date and choose the trusted contacts you want notified. If everything goes as planned, you simply check in. If you don't, SoloWise lets them know automatically.
A simple, dependable process
How SoloWise works
A straightforward check-in for our members and clear information for the people they trust.
Get Smart Reminders
A friendly prompt arrives via the website, app, and text message at check-in time.
Simple check-in
A quick response through the website, app, or text message
completes the check-in.
No check-in?
Contacts alerted
Trusted contacts are alerted and provided a comprehensive report when a check-in is missed.
Yes
Check-in received
No further actions are needed.
No
No check-in
SoloWise proceeds to alert the member's trusted contacts.
Why early awareness matters
It is not about being afraid something will go wrong. It is about having a simple backup plan when meeting someone new.
Scheduled check-ins reduce ambiguity. By defining timing and location ahead of time, missed check-ins become immediately meaningful — helping trusted contacts understand when a situation might require attention.
Minutes matter
Earlier awareness can help trusted contacts respond sooner.
Important context
Crucial details to help contacts fully understand the situation.
Privacy & respect
Stay connected without sharing your location unless you choose to.
Why Our Members Choose SoloWise for Safe Online Dating
Easy to useSet up a check-in in just a few moments.
Privacy-respectingStay in control without continuous tracking or surveillance.
Flexible and discreetFits easily into dates, meetups, and last-minute plans.
Works anywhereWorks on any device with a web browser ‐ phone, tablet, or laptop.
Flexible for any social event
One service. Many ways to use it.
First/Blind Dates
Set a check-in before meeting someone new, so a trusted contact will know if you do not check in as planned.
Bars & Clubs
Add a little extra reassurance when meeting at busy venues, going out at night, or staying out later than expected.
After-parties
Keep your check-in going when the night continues somewhere new, whether it's an after-party or another late-night stop.
Unfamiliar Places
Use a check-in when meeting somewhere you do not know well, whether it is a new neighborhood, venue, or part of town.
Clear answers
Frequently asked questions
No. SoloWise is not a dating platform. It's a check-in app designed to support safe online dating through scheduled check-ins and automated alerts.
No. SoloWise does not provide continuous tracking. Location sharing is optional and entirely under your control.
Only the emergency contacts you select. You choose who is notified and when.
Once you save a check-in time, SoloWise does not rely on your device to send alerts to your contacts.
You can trigger an alert instantly using the in-app Emergency SOS Button.
Simple and transparent
Affordable pricing
Start free and stay free as long as you'd like. No credit card required.
Upgrade when you need more capacity.
Free
$0/mo
A simple way to begin
- Daily check-ins
- Smart reminders
- One trusted contact
Plus
$3/mo
Get greater capacity
- Everything in Free
- Additional contacts
- Expanded capacity
Pro
$6/mo
Add even more flexibility
- Everything in Plus
- Higher usage limits
- Priority features
Platinum
$9/mo
Access to maximum limits
- Everything in Pro
- Highest plan capacity
- Premium support
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Stay connected.
A simple check-in app so your trusted contacts know if you made it home.